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Top 5 Reasons Why Men Fear Commitment?
Posted by Triple M Wednesday 23 July, 2008 12:24 PM
Top 5 Reasons Why Men Fear Commitment.
Read them and then have your say! Rubbish or right on the money? Tell us now.
1: It's genetically inbuilt to spread my seed. It's a caveman thing. Back in year dot men believed they had to spread their seed far and wide for the very survival of the human race. Strangely, this notion hasn't changed, even with world population bulging at the seams.
2. I don't want to give up my freedom. Some guys may spend all weekend at home on the couch watching sport, but they need to know that if by chance they want to hit the bars with their old mates for an all-night bender, that they still have the freedom to do so.
3. Something better might come along. Yes, he loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, but somewhere in the dark recesses of his mind is a tiny delusional thought of hooking up with super model Helena Christensen or his big- breasted ex-girlfriend from his Uni days.
4. Grow up and take some responsibility. It might be hard to fathom, but all men were once boys, some are still boys. Some may remember how their fathers glowingly talked about days before mortgages, family and work stress. It's this fear that keeps grown men acting like 15 year old nerds in the hope that they never have to grow up. It's called the Peter Pan syndrome.
5. The perfect woman is hard to find. Men like to be visual, so that air-brushed-to-an-inch-of-their-life cover girl on your copy of Cosmo isn't doing the womanhood cause any good. Especially if the sight of you on a Sunday morning with your grubby tracky on and hair everywhere scares him. He's also comparing his mothers cooking to yours, but he will never verbalise it. Never!
Comments
We dont fear committment, we just fear being told what to do.
Posted by D9D Wednesday 23 July, 2008 04:33 PM
this is very simple..
Men fear commitment because theyre scared theyre going to see something better walk past one day.
so having a girlfriend stuck to the side of you may make it slightly harder to get a piece of it, unless u stike it lucky and she's keen to join in ;)
in that case... shes a keeper!
but men are so deluded sometimes.. dont you ever think we think the same about you!
so if you ever wonder why we took so long to come back from the toilet one night at the club... well lets just say, we might have seen something better, but we will keep you hanging on for that "sense of security"...
whos the dick now?
Posted by bianca Thursday 24 July, 2008 12:53 AM
Perhaps you wouldnt need to be told what to do if you grew up and stopped acting like children!
Posted by Jx Sunday 27 July, 2008 02:57 PM
Women are no differant then men. Always want more & better versions of it. We watch sport, you talk garbage to friends. We go out & drink with mates & you talk about old flames with like minded ladies. Have a look at yourself girls. Your in the mirror long enough!
Posted by Brad Monday 28 July, 2008 01:39 PM
I agree that guy's want better than they have, but if they can't get that, they'll just hang around what they have! Make up your bloody minds and stick to it!! Stop wanting your cake etc... there's so many cool chicks out there worth the effort.
Posted by Overit Wednesday 30 July, 2008 10:29 AM
Its fair enough men fear commitment.If you were married for a few years than all of a sudden your wifes banging your best mate and wants the house and car? Women fear commitment aswell unless of course moneys involved, then within a few months shes stolen your sperm!
Posted by Brad Monday 11 August, 2008 11:07 PM
D9D if the answer is that men fear being told what to do, then why is it that the type of woman that most men are attracted to are precisely the type who enjoy telling them what to do? In the majority of couples I see, it's the woman who makes the decisions, and it's woman who pulls the strings while the man sits back and utters those immortal words "Yes dear". You guys even joke about it, like it's so hilarious, but the simple answer is that if you fear so much being told what to do then for God's sake stop going after women who are likely to do precisely that. Alternatively, perhaps you should all grow a pair, and stand up for yourselves, instead of sitting back and letting someone else make your decisions for you?
Posted by Felicia Tuesday 12 August, 2008 10:12 PM
A man is no man when he can't face his fears.
A man should question his manhood if he gives into his fears.
Posted by amy Wednesday 13 August, 2008 12:33 AM
